| Australia |
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Australian men are not expressively emotional. To be
overly physically demonstrative is sometimes seen as
unmanly.
When yawning, always cover your mouth and say,
"Excuse me".
When drinking in some Australian pubs, you can signal
that you can win a fight with anyone in the bar simply by
finishing your drink, turning the glass upside down and
placing the glass squarely on the bar.
Australians are very much into sports, thus, any type of
sportsmanlike gestures, such as congratulating a good
performance or being a good loser, are appreciated. Good
sportsmanship is highly respected in Australia.
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| Bangladesh |
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Bangladeshis will shake the hand of a Western man, but if the
Bangladeshi meets a woman of either nationality, he or she
will just nod their head while being introduced.
Approximately one quarter of the population in
Bangladesh is Hindi, thus, the proper greeting is the namaste.
It is considered unclean if you transfer food from your
plate to another's plate, even if it's your spouse's
plate.
Please remove your shoes before you enter a mosque in
Bangladesh. If you see that other people are washing
their feet too, do the same.
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| Burma (Myanmar) |
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It is not proper in Mynamar to show public displays of
affection.
Buddhism is the main religion in Mynamar, thus practices
of the religion are widely revered. Thus, the bottom half
of the body is considered lowly, while the upper half is
held in greater esteem.
When you see any statues or images of Buddha in Mynamar,
do not touch the head of Buddha.
The feet in Mynamar are considered "unclean",
thus it is very rude to show the soles of your feet or
even raise your feet, such as in placing them on a table
or desk.
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| People's Republic of China |
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The Western custom of shaking a person' hand upon an
introduction is becoming widespread throughout China.
However, often a nod of the head or a slight bow will
suffice. If your Chinese host does not smile upon
introductions, don't worry. The Chinese culture is rooted
in the attitude of keeping one's feelings inside rather
than displaying emotions openly and publicly.
The Chinese generally are not a touching society,
especially with visitors. Thus, avoid any prolonged
bodily contact.
Personal space is very limited in China, especially while
conversing. You may have the idea to then move backward,
which probably will make your Chinese host follow you
forward, thus resulting in a bit of a dance!
The Chinese love to applaud, thus don't be surprised if
you are greeted by a round of applause, even by children.
If you are applauded, be respectful and return the
applause.
It is common in China to show one's surprise or dismay by
sucking air in quickly and loudly through the lips and
teeth. If you have been shown this gesture, it would be
advisable to modify your request, thereby not having the
Chinese host face the situation of saying "no"
to you, which they consider to be very embarrassing.
Silence is respected in China, so don't be discouraged if
there are long periods of no talking. This time can be
used for contemplation by your hosts. During a
conversation, though, be respectful about not
interrupting when someone else is speaking.
If you are offering your Chinese host a gift, it is
common for the Chinese to decline the gift several times
before accepting it; this is a matter of proper
etiquette in China.
Seating arrangements are important in China. At a
business meeting, the main guest is always seated at the
"head of the room", facing the door, with the
host having his or her back to the door. When dining, the
guest of honor always sits to the left of the host.
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| Fiji |
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Fijians usually greet one another by nodding their head
and then flicking their eyebrows upward. Otherwise, a
handshake is customary with visitors.
Please remove your shoes when entering a Fijian home.
To show your respect to someone while conversing, place
your arms folded behind your back.
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| Hong Kong |
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Due to almost one hundred years of British influence in
Hong Kong, many British customs are apparent. A firm
handshake is appreciated, however a looser grip might
prevail, and the personal space between people is
somewhat smaller.
When talking with someone, be sure not to blink your eyes
conspicuously, as this is a sign of disrespect and
boredom.
To beckon someone in Hong Kong, extend your arm and place
your palm downward. Make a scratching motion with your
fingers.
Never use your index finger, with your palm up and toward
you with your finger wagging towards you...this gesture
is only for animals.
To signal to a waiter in a restaurant that you would like
your check, make a writing motion in the air with your
hands.
Tea is often served during business meetings. Do not
drink your tea until your host begins. If the tea is
untouched by your host for a long period of time, then
this may signal that the meeting is finished.
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| India |
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A Western woman should not initiate a handshake with a
man in India. Many Indian women will shake hands with a
foreign woman, but not a foreign man.
When meeting someone, it is advisable to fold your hands as
you would in prayer but your fingers (palms pressed together)
should point upwards rather than forward. This is done simultaneously
while using the Indian greeting "Namaste" (pronounced "num - us - tay").
[For the curious, 'Namaste' means 'I bow to the divine in you".]
When walking down a street in India, do not stare at the
impoverished population; as this is considered a way to
humiliate them.
Avoid showing anger, as this is the worst way to achieve
anything in India.
When walking towards temples or other holy places, many
street salespeople will approach you with their hand
outstretched as if wanting to shake your hand. Be
careful, as this is many times merely a scam to allow the
salesperson to latch a religious bracelet on your wrist
and then demand a donation.
Before entering a temple [or any sacred area for that matter] it is
almost always required that you remove your footwear. There is
usually an arrangement for this, and you may have to pay a small
fee to the person in charge. [Needless to say, it is foolish to
leave expensive footwear outside the building while you go inside.
If you are reluctant to leave your footwear unattended, it is
advisable to let your companion watch over it while you take turns going in].
To express remorse or honesty in India, people will grasp
their earlobes. This is a gesture used by servants when
they are scolded.
When you wish to point in India, use your chin or your
full hand, but never just a single finger, as this is
used only with inferiors. The chin is not used to signal
to superiors. The best way to point is with the full
hand.
It is advisable to use your right hand while offering an item to
someone. [However, I should note that this is something that is not
followed very strictly these days, and almost overlooked in the city.
But, you never know when you may offend any old-world people.]
In India, it is considered rather offensive to (even accidentally)
step on someone. Basically, any action that involves your foot and
someone else's person is offensive. Apologies should be made immediately.
To illustrate this confusing tip, for example, if you step on
someone's toes, or your leg or foot brushes against them, etc.
There is another important aspect to this -- the slightly unusual
form of apology on the part of the offender. Again, I need not
tell you, that a "sorry" will suffice and the ritual I am about
to describe may not be expected, though you will encounter
it if someone happens to step on
your toes or whatever. After committing the "offense" the other
person, as a form of apology, may tap you (touch you briefly
with the tips of his fingers usually on the shoulder), and
then in the same motion tap his own forehead. This is a form
of apology, a way of seeking forgiveness for the action.
Elders in India are never addressed by their first name.
It is always advisable to use the proper title.
Additional Indian gesture information provided by: Jeetendra Chandragiri
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| Indonesia |
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When meeting someone for the first time in Indonesia, you
should offer your hand to be shook, and slightly nod your
head.
If you are seated and cross you legs, cross them at the ankles or knees,
but not with one ankle up on the other knee.
When pointing, Indonesians will point with the thumb
extended, instead of the forefinger.
To show approval, you may pat another person on the
shoulder, but never on the head.
When you are finished eating your meal in Indonesia,
leave some food on your plate. To leave nothing on the
plate is a sign that you would like more food.
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| JAPAN |
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The act of presenting business cards is very important in
Japan. Remember to hold the business card with both
hands, grasping it between the thumbs and forefingers.
Present it with the printing pointing towards the person
to which you are giving the card, and bow slightly. Your
Japanese host will accept the card with both hands, bow
slightly and then read the card carefully. When you
receive the business card from the Japanese host, be sure
to examine it carefully and avoid quickly putting it
away. Place it on the table in front of you for further
reference.
The Japanese find it difficult to answer a definite
"no" to either a question or statement. They
signal that they "don't know" or "don't
understand" something by waving their own hand in
front of their face, with the palm outward. This also may
signal that "I'm undeserving" if you pay them a
compliment.
Listening is considered both a sign of politeness, as
well as a valuable skill in business negotiations in
Japan. Japanese often think North Americans need to
listen more attentively, not talk as much, and certainly
not interrupt when someone else is speaking.
The "OK" signal in Japan is often interpreted as the symbol for money,
whereby the circular shape of the index finger and thumb
together suggest the shape of a coin. This symbol may be
used in a store if you want the cashier to give you your
change in coins.
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| Korea, South |
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During introductions, the more senior person offers to
shake hands first, but the more junior person bows first.
Men have priority in Korea, so please note that a man
will walk through a door first, walk ahead of a woman and
woman will help them on with their coats.
Shoes are removed before entering a Korean home.
Do not open a gift when you receive it from your Korean
host; open it later in private.
When entering a conference or dining room, please wait to
be shown to the seat designated for you. Even if you are
the guest of honor, make a slight protest before going to
your designated spot, as this demonstrates the trait of
humility which is greatly appreciated by Koreans.
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| Malaysia |
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There are three distinct ethnic cultures represented in
Malaysia: Malay, Chinese and Indian. Thus, each culture
has its own customs.
When a person stands with their hands on their hips, this is a sign of anger.
If you see a prayer rug in a Muslim's office or home, to
not stand on it or touch it with your feet.
Indians have a unique way of showing their agreement.
They move their head quickly from side to side. Many
Westerners often misread this gesture as signaling
"No".
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| New Zealand |
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The original inhabitants of the area known as Polynesia
were the Moriori, whose culture still is present in the
nation of New Zealand today. The traditional greeting
among members of the Maori tribe is to rub noses.
The majority of the New Zealand population is British,
thus British customs and gestures prevail.
To chew gum and use toothpicks in public is considered
quite rude in New Zealand.
Make sure to ask permission before you take a person's
photograph in New Zealand, especially the Maori.
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| Pakistan |
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It is customary to be greeted with coffee or tea in
Pakistan. Accept the offer, or you may offend your host.
Women are often separated socially from men.
Staring is quite common in the Pakistani culture, so
don't be offended if you feel someone is staring at you.
An obscene gesture in Pakistan is the closed fist.
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| Philippines |
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Filipinos often greet each other with the "eyebrow" flash which is
a quick lifting of the eyebrows.
Filipinos will point to an object by shifting their eyes
toward it or pursing their lips and point with their
mouth, not their hands.
When dining with your Filipino hosts, try to leave some
food on your plate as a sign that your host has provided
you with enough food.
When you are being entertained during business times, you
may be asked to participate in group singing sessions.
Try to go along with the fun.
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| Samoa |
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Samoans are generally flowery and formal during greetings,
so please reply in kind.
When entering a Samoan home, wait until the mats have been spread upon the floor before entering. Leave your shoes
at the door and then sit cross-legged on the mat.
Conversation takes place once you are seated.
The national beverage of Samoa is "kava".
Please accept this beverage when offered, and drop a few
drops of it on the ground before drinking it, as this is
the custom in Samoa.
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| Singapore |
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The elderly receive great respect in Singapore, thus be
sure to hold doors open for them, rise before they enter
a room and give up your seat to them on public
transportation.
When seated, cross your legs at the knees so that the sole of your shoe is not displayed
to other people.
Littering is strictly forbidden in Singapore, and anyone
caught violating this law is subject heavy fines. This
includes the throwing away of cigarettes also.
Singapore, like Malaysia, hosts a mixture of Malay,
Chinese and Indian cultures, so the respective customs
and mores apply.
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| Sri Lanka |
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Although the British culture is a strong influence in Sri
Lanka, there are still many different ethnic groups and
castes in the country, and each hosts its own cultural
nuances.
Always extinguish a cigarette before you meet someone.
People in Sri Lanka often smile instead of saying
"thank you" However, a Western woman should be
cautious about smiling too much, as this may be seen as a
sign of flirtation.
As stated previously, a caste system still exists in Sri
Lanka, so if you invite someone to sit down with you and
they are reluctant to do so, please do not keep
insisting.
Any image of Buddha is sacred, thus do not ever touch,
lean or sit on one.
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| Tahiti |
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Remove your shoes before entering a Tahitian house.
Wash your hands before eating with your Tahitian hosts,
as most Tahitians eat with their hands.
It is customary and polite to shake the hands of everyone
in a group in Tahiti. Kissing Tahitian friends on the
cheeks still signals the French influence among the
Tahitian islands.
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| Taiwan |
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Avoid touching a child on the top of his or her head.
To show great respect for an elderly person, cover your
left fist with your right hand and raise both hands to
your heart.
Good posture is important in Taiwan, with Taiwanese men
usually sitting with both feet firmly fixed to the floor.
Women will cross their legs at the knees or ankles.
Always present and receive a gift in Taiwan with both
hands.
Toasting while dining in Taiwan is common, with the word
being "Kan-pie", which means "bottoms
up".
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| Thailand |
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The traditional greeting in Thailand is the
"wai" wherein the hands are placed together in
a prayer-like position and the headed is slightly bowed.
It is similar to the "namaste" in India. The
"wai" symbolizes "hello", "thank
you", "good-bye" and sometimes "I'm
sorry". The higher you hold your hands while
performing the "wai", the more respect you are
conveying. Never raise your fingertips higher than your
face.
Do not step on a doorsill when entering a building
because Thais believe that a deity resides in the doorsill
and stepping there will offend that deity.
When passing in front of someone in Thailand, especially
an elderly or more senior person, lower your upper body
slightly.
Never place your arm over the back of a chair in which
someone is sitting, or affectionately pat someone's
shoulders or back in Thailand. Both gestures are seen as
offensive in Thailand.
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